I found out when any event happen, then you will meeting a lot of old friends from primary to friends you are meeting recently. Just because of my wedding ceremony in Dec, I found out I contacted a lot of old friend and something funny is it seems like I’m organizing a gathering. 
Sometime feel “pai-sei” to contact some friend that is long time not keep in touch, but, after certain time I wish to have this type of gathering, especially the special event maybe.
Think about it, on the wedding dinner that night, I don’t think I have much time to chat with friend, then, I miss the chitchat session, but, I think is a good jump start to keep in touch back with old friend after that.
Previously when busy with career, relationship, new friendship etc. we always forgot about we still need to maintain the old friendship, still need to “feed” the old friendship with loving heart and care, else the friendship is getting far away from us. Sometime I found out after sometime, especially when the age getting older, the more I miss the old friendship. I don’t know whether I still have chance to get the gap close, but, hopefully will try my best to keep it up. - Alison
